| Foreword: Jennifer Knapp | p. 8 |
| A Note on Language | p. 12 |
| How Do I Even Know Who I Am? | p. 14 |
| Aren't There Only Two Genders? | p. 19 |
| Is There Something Wrong with Me? | p. 24 |
| Can I Be Queer and Christian? | p. 31 |
| Where Do I Find Accurate Information? | p. 36 |
| Is This a Phase? | p. 39 |
| Won't People Think I'm Doing This for Attention? | p. 43 |
| Aren't Queer People Discriminated Against? That Terrifies Me | p. 47 |
| How Do I Cope with Anxiety and Depression? | p. 52 |
| Interlude: Queer Clichés and What They Teach Us | p. 60 |
| I Think I'm Ready to Tell Someone. But Who Should I Come Out to First? | p. 63 |
| Should I Come Out to My Parents/Guardians? Do I Have To? | p. 69 |
| What If My Family Disapproves? | p. 78 |
| They're Not Accepting, but They Love Me. Don't My Parents Know What's Best for Me? | p. 82 |
| Should I Come Out at School? (Gulp!) | p. 83 |
| Should I Come Out at Church? (Double Gulp!?!) | p. 93 |
| Do I Have to Answer Everyone's Questions? | p. 99 |
| My Church Is Not Going to Like It If I Come Out. What Then? | p. 104 |
| You Don't Have to Come Out | p. 108 |
| Interlude: Queer Icons of Christianity (A Short List) | p. 110 |
| Is My Church's Teaching Abusive? And Can I Leave It? | p. 114 |
| What If My Congregation Is Full of Anti-LGBTQ+ Bigots? | p. 120 |
| What If My Congregation Is Too Affirming? (This Happens!) | p. 125 |
| What If My Pastor, Parents, or Anyone Else Tries to Make Me Straight? | p. 127 |
| What If I Want to Change? | p. 133 |
| What If I'm All Alone in a World of Straight People? | p. 135 |
| Help! I'm in Love with (or at Least Crushing Hard on) My Best Friend! | p. 138 |
| Help! I'm a Horny Queer Teenager! | p. 144 |
| Interlude: The ABCs of LGBTQ+ Cultural Icons | p. 154 |
| Is Bullying Definitely Going to Happen to Me? What Should I Do about It? | p. 158 |
| What If My Friends Reject Me? | p. 167 |
| What about the Bathroom? | p. 171 |
| What about Being Queer Online? | p. 176 |
| How Should I Be Queer ... Online? | p. 181 |
| Isn't a Little Online Harassment Just a Part of Being Queer? | p. 187 |
| Why Don't I Fit In with the Queer World I See in Pop Culture? | p. 191 |
| Why Are Bi and Pan People Treated Worse (Even by Other Queer Folks)? | p. 194 |
| Interlude: An 8-Step Program for Queering Your Community | p. 199 |
| What about Partying? (Queer Folk Like to Party ... I Think?) | p. 202 |
| Okay, but I'm Serious. Help! I'm, Like, Really Horny! | p. 207 |
| I'm Never Horny. Should I Be Concerned? | p. 208 |
| Can I Look at Porn? | p. 211 |
| How Do I Know When I'm Ready for ... It? (We Mean Sex) | p. 217 |
| How Do Queer People Even Have Sex? | p. 222 |
| Can I Go to the Local Queer Sex Shop? (And Why Would I?) | p. 225 |
| Does It Get Better? | p. 227 |
| We've Reached the End. Give Me the Representation I Need and Tell Me What a Queer Future Looks Like | p. 232 |
| Glossary | p. 237 |
| Additional Resources | p. 243 |