| Introduction: Planning Is Important | p. vii |
Level 1 | Start With Your Stuff | p. 1 |
| Passwords, People, Money, and Your Abode | |
| Access Granted: Passwords & Codes | p. 2 |
| Sharing your phone password | p. 3 |
| Side Mission: Can we see some ID? | p. 5 |
| Passwords: The next level | p. 6 |
| Password storage methods | p. 8 |
| Keys to the kingdom: Your most important passwords | p. 10 |
| Off-line time | p. 12 |
| Plan of Attack: Passwords & codes | p. 13 |
| All Your Money: Everywhere It Lives | p. 14 |
| Your financial blueprint | p. 16 |
| Questions for each financial account | p. 17 |
| When the proof is in the paper | p. 18 |
| List your assets | p. 18 |
| Side Mission: Making sure the kids are alright | p. 19 |
| Life with benefits | p. 23 |
| Why you (really) need joint accounts | p. 27 |
| Plan of Attack: Money you have | p. 28 |
| "Safe" deposit boxes | p. 28 |
| Your Pad: An Operating System | p. 30 |
| Pool your knowledge | p. 31 |
| Your home matrix | p. 32 |
| Basement | p. 35 |
| Main floor | p. 36 |
| Upstairs | p. 38 |
| Side Mission: Animal instincts | p. 39 |
| The great outdoors | p. 42 |
| Just put it in storage | p. 44 |
| Plan of Attack: Home Operating System | p. 45 |
| Hitting the road | p. 46 |
| Making First Contact | p. 47 |
| Your top five contacts | p. 48 |
| What's up, Doc? | p. 51 |
| Money folks | p. 52 |
| Law abiding | p. 52 |
| An unbroken home | p. 53 |
| Side Mission: Parental guidance | p. 55 |
| Hitting the road (or water) | p. 59 |
| Your personal VIPs | p. 59 |
| Plan of Attack: Organizing contacts | p. 60 |
| Show them the way | p. 61 |
| What about family? | p. 61 |
| Break Time: Life's Milestones and Pit Stops | p. 62 |
| Level 2: Assemble The Pieces | p. 65 |
| Trusts, Wills, Health Care, and Your Digital Matrix | |
| Wills, Trusts, And Powers Of Attorney | p. 66 |
| When you're alive: POA | p. 66 |
| When you're dead: Will | p. 70 |
| Side Mission: Taking care of an actual business | p. 74 |
| Plan of Attack: Your legal docs: POA and Will | p. 82 |
| When you're alive or dead: Trusts | p. 86 |
| Plan of Attack: Creating a Trust | p. 92 |
| Letter of Last Instructions | p. 93 |
| Plan of Attack: Letter of Last Instructions | p. 94 |
| Money You Owe: Debt, Credit & Insurance | p. 96 |
| Credit for organizing | p. 97 |
| Bills: The expected | p. 100 |
| Bills: The unexpected | p. 104 |
| Plan of Attack: Money you owe | p. 106 |
| So. Much. Insurance. | p. 107 |
| Yet. More. Insurance. | p. 111 |
| Plan of Attack: Insurance | p. 115 |
| Your Medical Checkup | p. 116 |
| Your Personal Medical Journal | p. 116 |
| Plan of Attack: Construct your Personal Medical Journal | p. 119 |
| Advance Health Care Directives | p. 120 |
| Living Wills | p. 122 |
| Life support | p. 124 |
| Second life: Donating your organs | p. 127 |
| Side Mission: When life gets golden | p. 128 |
| Plan of Attack: Create your Advance Directive | p. 130 |
| Let's Get Digital | p. 131 |
| Why you need a Digital Estate Plan | p. 131 |
| Your digital account matrix | p. 136 |
| Plan of Attack: Make a Digital Estate Plan | p. 143 |
| The big close-out | p. 144 |
| Plan of Attack: Name a Digital Executor | p. 152 |
| Break Time | p. 153 |
| Talk the Talk | p. 153 |
| Stealth Talk: How to Gather Info from Loved Ones | p. 156 |
| Level 3: The Finishing Touches | p. 163 |
| Memorabilia, Letters, Funeral Planning, and Obituaries | |
| Memories: The Kind You See, Taste, and Hold | p. 165 |
| Photo finish | p. 165 |
| Plan of Attack: Physical memories | p. 171 |
| Delicious history | p. 172 |
| Plan of Attack: Recipes | p. 176 |
| Personal antiquing | p. 177 |
| Plan of Attack: Heirlooms | p. 178 |
| Telling The Story Of Your Life | p. 179 |
| Round 1: Your personal history | p. 179 |
| Round 2: Your favorite things | p. 180 |
| Round 3: Your experiences | p. 181 |
| Plan of Attack: Family tree | p. 183 |
| Round 4: Your academic & professional life | p. 184 |
| Round 5: Your religious & political beliefs and your charities & causes | p. 184 |
| Final round: Your hopes for the future | p. 186 |
| Plan of Attack: Ethical Will | p. 186 |
| It's In The Mail: Legacy Letters | p. 187 |
| Blurbs to friends, acquaintances & associates | p. 187 |
| Letters to the important people in your life | p. 189 |
| Side Mission: End-of-life medical directives | p. 192 |
| Plan of Attack: Writing blurbs & letters | p. 195 |
| Ready for your close-up: Videos for loved ones | p. 196 |
| It's (Really) Your Funeral | p. 198 |
| The most important funeral decision you'll make | p. 198 |
| Five steps to planning a traditional funeral and burial | p. 199 |
| A fiery exit | p. 203 |
| Paying it forward; Funeral finances | p. 204 |
| Plan of Attack: Plan your funeral | p. 208 |
| Last words ... in print | p. 211 |
| Plan of Attack: Write your own obituary | p. 213 |
| Tiers of memorialization | p. 218 |
| Side Mission: Remove skeletons from your closet | p. 221 |
| Final Break Time | p. 230 |
| What Happens If ... You Don't Plan Ahead? | |
| Afterword | p. 234 |
| Plan of Attack Checklist | p. 234 |
| Acknowledgments | p. 236 |
| Resources | p. 238 |
| Index | p. 240 |